The youth pastor at University Reformed Church has written a post on Kevin DeYoung’s blog giving some advice for youth ministers. It’s worth a read and some comment.
His four points are as follows and are all very good and straightforward:
- Relationships matter much more than coolness.
- Gaining the trust of the parents is one of the most important parts of the job.
- Center your ministry on the Word of God
- Give more thought and attention to the above things than to your youth ministry model.
All these points are good points. They should be points that every youth pastor can affirm. Coolness only lasts about 5 minutes and then everyone sees who you really are. Gaining the trust of parents in this role is essential and a high priority in the relationship building of the youth pastor. The Word is to play a central part of it all, guiding, directing, and correcting the young people, the youth pastor, and the church.
It is, however, point four that I find most interesting. While yes, it is important to give thought and attention to the three points above, it’s actually the three points that outline the model for ministry. Focussing on relationships, parents, and the Bible is a model for youth ministry. They are to be priorities and in the course of being priorities they become a model. In giving thought and attention to them you’re therefore giving thought and attention to your youth ministry model.
What’s your youth ministry model? One that focuses on the Word and relationships or one that puts it’s focus elsewhere?